finding my way

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GTO,

I would like to ask you when things seemed normal with your husband, were there times that you had a bad day, and were a little harder on your children? I not saying this to make a excuse for treating them harshly because of your h. I am saying it because you are human. But since BD those things that might have caused you to have a bad day are now minor, and probably hardly have the same effect they once had. It is amazing how BD gives us a new perspective.

So now instead of those bad days causing your parenting patience to wane, it is your H actions. NLW is right, you recognize it, so YOU can change it. I for one am happy that I too recognized it, and now my children are disciplined based on their actions, not someone else's that affected me. Just as it always should have been.