Okay, a handsome goofball dude who can take care of himself first is so very attractive. Why would I be interested I someone who could not care enough to care about himself?
The coffee thing? Let it go. She is pointedly showing you that this behaviour, an indication of who you were, is not what she wants. Start showing her who you can be.
If she doesn't want to take garbage out, okay. The garbage police going to come and rescind garbage privileges?
I realize these things build and trust me, I am not minimizing, but I agree in that you must start doing things that make you and only you feel good. It does not feel good to make a cup of coffee then watch her throw it out. It does not feel good to be ignored. So do not put yourself in these situations.
I realize I can take my own advice, so I will, lol! But how about we do this together ?;)
