Next Step, Moving On

[dorightman]

I understand the whole DB approach, but I have some questions/conflicts with it.

If you try to do the LRT and after several months go by there is no change in your R, except that your w is now threatening to move out and serve you with a D because you didn't move out, isn't it time to accept that she's made up her mind and there's nothing you can do to change it?

I wonder what the options are here,

do I make an appointment for mediation, get all my legal ducks in order, move out and co-parent separated continuing to DB hoping for her to come around. (this would make her happy because it's what she wants)

or

do I continue to stay in the house, let her move out if she want to, and our R goes further south, she probably would serve me with D papers soon after she moved out.

or are there any other options?

She is totally done with me, she feels no love for me, she doesn't kiss me, we have not slept together or ML in 6 months, she just wants me out of her life and she wants to move on.
All the fighting for our M I've done has not helped at all. She will not read anything I ask her to, she will not respond to any talk of R, she only responds to me talking about mediation,separation,and D.

I just don't know how to turn this around. She's done and has been for a long time. She's detached and unemotional with me.

Anyone got any ideas?