Hi Sam-

Your planned trip to Bermuda sounds awesome! No doubt you will have a great time, and enjoy spending time with your family.

I just wanted to say that just because your wife seems happy, it doesn't mean she is. You are definitely NOT what is making her unhappy. She may want to pretend she is living in bliss, but don't fall for it. She can't pretend forever.

I know it's hard to see her "happy". But speaking from someone who has seen the other side of their persona, it is an ugly and sad sight. Such anger and hatefulness towards themselves.

Hang in there. Continue to give her space and focus on you. Keep thinking about that spectacular vacation in June! smile


Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."