Yes I am not the best I can be yet. Still working on all of my 180s and they are definitely not second nature yet.
GAL is going ok. I am going out to play pool or bowling tonight with the guys from work.
My problem, or difficulty, is with how to be when around my wife at home. I have been told to treat her like a roommate. But she said I was not giving her what she needed 'emotionally' so how do I show her I can do that if it's going to be too much attention? Or as AnotherStander said, is it not even time for that now?
Maybe leo is right. I am being too uptight about things. I should just relax and enjoy my time, live life, and hope she sees it at some point.
How do you think I should treat my W at this point? She is very nice to me, but I do sometimes notice the torment and frustration she is having with her decision.
This is all so confusing. Why doesn't a WAW come with a manual??
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
