Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc

I think she's given you several hints about wanting to see if things could be better with you. Remember that

she will only come home to reconcile IF & ONLY IF

she believes, marriage to you can be better/different than before.

Your job is showing her that it could be.





While I agree....(and you know I luv ya 25 )

I think that this could be expanded a little more...


I think HIS job is actually being better, regardless whether or not she chooses to see it. She may never choose that, yet it doesn't mean that UF shouldn't decide to do better...regardless.

Then, after time and consistent actions , she will either believe it or not, but that will be on her. Either way, UF will be better because of it.

Yes, she WILL need to see it...

I just don't think he should focus on showing her anything right now....

But hey, that's just me....