Wow, she's hurting, huh?

As 25 would say, lose the scorecard.

You don't know that your 180s weren't working. After all what was it, about 2 weeks since the coffee incident.

Do things because you want to do them, because it's who you are not because you think it will make her like you.

What she's doing isn't detached, it's hurt and angry. Big difference. She is not indifferent.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss