House for sale. So Sad. Family Breaking Up (pt 3)

[FloydMan]

My 180's clearly did not work. She seemed to get angrier and more vindictive. So, I backslide and made coffee, left her a nice full hot cup prepared and she rejected it, poured it out and made her own. Yet, the night before she prepared ice cream treats for the 4 of us including me. She will go to Starbucks or Tim Hortons and ask the girls right in front of me if they want something then turn away from me and ignore me. The other night i did pipe in and say i would love a hot chocolate, she ignored me in front of them and did not get me one. She did my laundry and folded it yet i have asked her not to and keeps claiming since the summer she never will. I have been sick and asked her to put out the garbage for the first time in 17 years and she just looked at me and said "no way!". This after I cleaned the kitchen but did not want to go out in the -15c weather having a bad cold. Yet she plans on taking over the home in 4 weeks? Time for me to not do anything?
BD, what makes you believe she is unsure if she is doing the right thing?
As far as detaching, she has got it down to a fine art. She is cold, though I believe her indifference is feigned. She definitely is emotional, in an angry and spiteful way. Very, very passive-aggressive.