The solution is to work on improving yourself. There is no way you are the best person you know how to be yet.

That's not the solution you want to hear, sorry, but it is the only solution, and that's why people here keep telling you the same thing over and over.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.