Thank you Starsky. I agree completely. And fortunately, so does my H. Transparency is a key component to our communication right now. So, I am going to continue to work to rebuild trust, unless it's proven that I shouldn't.
He's been home for a whole day and it's been wonderful so far. Close, caring communication. Planning for our future. Patience and understanding. Every day, a small step forward. We have MC on Monday, so it may get heavier when we have someone to mediate. But, I'm feeling good about having those conversations, as painful as some of them may be. At least I have the opportunity to actually have them.
Thanks for all of your support and advice. You have no idea how helpful you all have been throughout all of this, regardless if you've posted on my thread or not. Just reading everyone's stories and responses to each other, this community is so supportive and inciteful.