Starsky, I did see that. I didn't respond for a couple reasons:

1) I am not that sure there was "infidelity" on his part. He went out with that woman a few times but I can't be sure of the nature of their relationship. Obviously I am not comfortable with it but who am I to talk.

2) I'm not seeing that I'm in any position to make demands on him about mutual transparency. We just aren't in that space yet and I feel like it would be too much, too soon.

I guess there were only 2 reasons ;-)


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Moved out: August 2024

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