I have a few questions B and others:

-do I suggest counseling at some point. Seems counseling might make things worst.

-do I ever discuss some of the things she did in past . Aka going out til 2 am with whomever

-do we start to discuss boundaries and txting etc

I guess what im asking is how do you start to piece or rebuild marriage back once you reconcile or makeup initially ?

Do I continue to let things unfold?

Also out of nowhere wife a little fishy with phone tonight.