HI, Tori,
Sorry you are down and out but glad to hear you are getting some rest!

Your note was a good idea FOR YOU! You're right, of course, that it wouldn't change anything, so why send it.

I think it's great you are interested in keeping the door open for a new R, anytime after D is final! I think some of us are just wired to have a partner in life. SOme of us will find we can live a fulfilling life w/o a partner & still be happy.

But, I hope for you (& all of us here) that your happiness will come within so that you can bring this to your next R.

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.