Thanks, roses, I do need to read the MLC success stories.
I talked with a co-worker/friend after work today & afterwards I felt so optomistic. Basically she was just reminding me that I deserve to be happy and to be w someone who wants to be w me & love me unconditionally. I thought that was H, but apparently not anymore.
As I've said before H seems very resolute about his path moving toward OW. Friend agreed though that H definitely is living in a fantasy world (in his head) about what life might be like w OW. She has two younger (than ours) children & I can guarantee H does NOT want MORE family life!
I can definitely see them dating/see one another while her soon-to-be ExH has their kids while they go off in this pseudo-reality world to date. I can see this going on for a while too as this seems to be what H wants-just her.
Sorry, I know I am predicting future events & that's not healthy.
Had a good movie night w boys at S9s school-Madagascar 3.
A whole day of basketball 10am-4:30pm tomorrow! I love watching my boys play. H coaches two of the boys' teams, which makes them happy, & I'm glad H wants to still be involved. Which also means H won't come to house tomorrow (which I am glad about, b/c then I don't have to worry about how to act/be).
I'm wondering how long things will stay "in limbo". Glad to stay here for now though (as opposed to H started to date OW).
GAL outside of activities w boys isn't easy at all (except for gym).
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
