I've read divorce remedy and the 5 love languages. Her love language is definitely touch - which is difficult. I will try and do what you say and give her a friendship hug...

I think there is very possibly Another man - believe it or not I'm not too worried about this at this point - I just want to repair my marriage - if there is any hope of that happening - although that looks very slim at the moment...

I am doing my 180s - I faltered with the text message regarding facebook - I find it so hard because I wonder if she has noticed that I am not pursuing her etc at the moment... It's hard but I want so much for this to work. I want my family to be complete again...

When I see her tUesday to split the bank account I will try my hardest to be positive and happy... But it's hard... I want her to notice me again, to think about me... I want her to be happy because I love her - but it hurts that she seems so happy and certain without me...


W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013