Yeah I've left 3 counselors who all advocated divorce and 1 even gave me a lawyers card. If it wasn't for you guys my marriage would be long gone. We still not in the clear but doing better. I can see dbusting being life long experience.
To be honest not happy that guy txting her but glad she told me . I also feel we need to have a conversation about why the sudden change of heart. It was so quick it gives me anxiety thinking about it.
I have to learn to continue to give W space even when things are good. For example tonight she feels awful so I'm trying to keep kids out of her face. I also can sense she wants nothing to do with me so trying to honor that.
