Sweetbaby, I asked bc I wanted to know if there were opportunities for positive interactions.
Here is an idea. Next time you have to email him or text him for a financial reason, add a little funny or quirky comment, or an insider joke. I'm thinking that in order for him to notice any changes, etc, it would be good to have some interaction. However, the OW is in the picture, which makes the WAS not notice most changes. Tough one.
