He sounds exactly like my husband. Claims nothing going on but won't let you know what he is doing or see his phone. Its like they have one over on you. I had a brief backslide this morning but I'm back trying to act like I don't care. I also feel as if I am done. Trying to just fix myself and not worry about my spouse. I guess that would be my only advise for you. Try and work on yourself. I've been going to IC and it really seems to be helping me get stronger.


me-42
H-41
S-12
S-8
M-15 yr
f/o bout OW- 11-29-12
H moved out 10-31-13
Filed for divorce 12-27-13
D- 10-21-14