Thanks guys! Yes, this crap is totally abusive, but I'm not backing down. While these are my boundaries, I pretty much stated them knowing he would not be able to do them at this time. I'm relating differently, so he doesn't know what to do. I set an appointment Monday night for the IC. I'm taking care of me. he totally cake eating. I'm done allowing it. I'm going to DB for me & move on.

I'm not saying I am completely done with him, but today he is unwilling to treat me the way I should be. I mean, Im pregnant & this is what he is saying. Nice.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D