He called. I had texted that I needed some space, but he called. So I calmly told him that I need him to be willing to give me total transparency, defriend the OW on FB, this nurse, and being willing to let me see his phone & emails if I need to. He of course immediately said "I dont know if I even want to work on this anymore & I don't want to feel spied on." ok, then we'll figure out what we will do for a S. he got mad & said I do t want you seeing my FB, knowing what I make, or in my life ever again!! We are getting a divorce. I just calmly said "ok".

He later texted he was sorry & he loved me. I responded with "I'm not saying divorce. I've told you what I need, and if you can't do that right now, then we need to S. we will figure it out" he texted back I love you. I know it's going to keep going up & down, but I'm serious. I'm going to start acting in my own best interest.

I feel good. Sad, but good.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D