I agree with SP. That's not communicating. Have the game shut off before she comes and spend that time with your D. In terms of your D, you have to be superdad now and spend twice as much attention on her since your W is gone.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER