AS yes it would seem I was posting repeat content. But MrBond was asking me what needs OM is meeting, and how do I do at home, and maybe try something new.

All that was spread out over maybe 6 posts back and forth.

But yes you are absolutely right. I need to focus on myself.

Yesterday I told W I was going out saturday so she can plan to be home with R&D. She said 'oh? Where are you going?' Like she was shocked I had something else to do other than sit and wait for her to get back from OM.

After that she had a bunch of questions whereas there weeks ago she would necrosis nothing. Who are you going with? A friend. Where are you going? Wherever the night takes us.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017