I understand what you are saying, but do you really want to be tied to him through a boat? I would think long and hard before I considered bailing him out. Sometimes we have to take a loss financially in order to get out from under the mlcer and move on w/our lives. I think I would talk to a financial expert about this before saying anything to him about it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
