I think you've made a good choice. After BD, before I found this site, I sent a few emails letting H know how I felt. I guess I thought it might change things if he knew. It didn't.

"And if my H ever wants to come back to our R and I already have someone else, well, he'll have to deal with that. No need to warn him or anything like that."

He'll see this by you GALing and moving on. I think WAS's think the way we're told to- believe none of what they say and half of what they do.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13