Originally Posted By: snodderly
No, you do not want to say those things. If you do, you are setting yourself up for disappointment and she will then really think about bolting. Keep to the facts 1) ordering a large number of checks;


Glad I checked with you because thats what my therapist told me to do she said tell her no more working on the house or spending money unless you want to work on the marriage

[/quote]2) furniture purchase and 3) the wedding and you being told that you are to babysit son. [/quote]

the furniture is taken care of

Me watching my son doesn't bother me so much her getting an invitation with GUEST bothers me - I already asked her if I was invited she just didn't answer me - so I need to bring it up again

I am unsure how to approach it


If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it.
I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!