Ugh. I just heard from my H that he is unable to get a loan for the boat so we will have to sell it. I really, really don't want any debt from that. He's probably hoping I'll apply the brakes.
I don't know what other options he's explored in terms of selling his vehicle or cashing out his retirement investments or talking to his mother about cosigning. But then I ask myself now much I should guide him in any of that thinking. Maybe there's other options?
I also wonder what would I need to see in order to apply the brakes? Is there anything at all that would make sense? Could I live with the status quo for any amount of time? He really doesn't seem to be able to put a plan in place.
I'm going to sit on the email for a bit until I know what to do. Also let him stew a bit. Any thoughts?
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011
