Floyd, I'm sorry this has taken a turn for the worst. Hang in there.
That said, I will echo some of the other comments here....too much mindreading on your side. You have no idea what W thinks, feels, thought, did, etc. It's a mind trap so don't even allow yourself to go down that path.
Also, I sense a lot of anger here. I know the sitch is tough...but try to find some calmness. You can't control W and she can't control you. She is going to do what she wants and you are going to do the same...accept it and don't feed into the negativity.
Clearly W is unsure if she's doing the right thing...she just knows she wants it to be different. Every negative behavior you show now is just going to show her how right she is to leave. Be strong, be calm, be nice...and do what you have to do to protect yourself and your family. There doesn't have to be anger in it.
