W went out to eat last night. She came home not feeling great. My W tends to blame the last thing she can remember on the way she feels.(typical anxiety) So last night it was the pizza crust from dinner or the chiro appointment from the a.m. I didn't really engage that much. Just tried to be sympathetic. Definitely 180 for me.
We both went to bed last night fairly late. 1130ish. She got an incoming txt at 1130. Another 180. I didn't even ask her. She usually tells me who it is from lately but last night she did not. I am hoping in the future she will be able to tell me even if it is a guy friend etc..Not worth discussing in my opinion based on all the positives. I figured I could have asked and if it was nobody then I look like an azz. If it was a guy friend it would be just akward so I decided to do nothing.
Our dog was diagnosed with liver cancer yesterday so it was a tough day at the house for all of us. We just put a dog down last easter.
One thing I do notice in which I am really trying to pay lots of attention to this time around. As things get more comfortable around the house you can tend to slip back to your NON gal ways. What I can see is you need to GAL the rest of your life. Gal in a healthy way. So that being said i schedule another dinner out with the boys next week. Plus taking son skiing on Sunday.
All is good. Just doing some journaling. I am looking for another counselor because my current counselor tried talking me into divorce
