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Hi All,
I needed to create new thread. I hope the link at the top to the previous thread works.
Thanks RLA, Bug, Ruby et al.
Yep, things have increased litigation wise this afternoon. After explaining to my ‘banker’ W Wednesday night to her complete disagreement that the mortgage will be in default by Feb 1 if not renewed. I guess she actually looked into it and found my statement to be true. She should have known this as a banker and mortgage expert for 25 years. She is making all kinds of financial mistakes. She is out of it. I did her a favour by not letting it default and getting into credit problem.
Anyway, new legal letter has been sent from her lawyer to clarify this and to renew temporarily at a higher rate until all is settled. Her aim is to have me out by Feb 25. My kids are distraught. I cannot allow this to happen. She does not realize it takes much longer than this to litigate such action. All financials have to be disclosed.
I feel sad but strong today. I am sure that will change. Yes, I have had a L since Oct. and he is not going to put up with this either.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.