wow - a lovoely new baby in your life- they';sr so sweet and cut thru all the crappola - wouln=dnt ebe great if you didn't even tell h (after all - if he's not "participating' in family life- why iis there an obligation outside ofyour decent nature?)
why ;noto leave it in your son's hands to tell or not? i have no idea how he's react- i'm with you thta it's not about him at all and not to even tolerate it 'going there'.
i'd say your son is an adult- going to be a father- perhaps him acting like a grown man will touch something intside your h tht you might not>?
speculation on my part- look at the inner strength youve realized you have-= maybe son will feel he "handled" something scary or touchy and be proud to realize tht he's going to have some too - and wiull need it going forward?>
i'm a real believer in us all being proud of our strengths and accomplishments even if we're sometijmes forced to deal with things we don't want to ' just a thought. hope you're okay today- i can only imagine your pain to watch this guy and not be able to get him help or get him to want it. sad sad and sad
hang in there- any how you slice it i'm withyou - a new baby is coming and it will beloved . you're making me want more thna ever to get down for a 'BABY FIX" - SOMEhow holding a tiny baby and absorbing the love they give off- makes a body feel better and realize what the correct perspective in life is - more than what we're feeling and seeing necessarily.
