It is hard UF but it can be done. That being said I'm not that good at it either, it's a work in progress. I'm more of either just a listener or just saying things like "it will all work out somehow, it always does. I usually tend to give options but let them know its their choice. Just validating and nothing's else doesn't come easy to me. I'm aware of it now though and usually think about it after the fact. That has to be one step closer than I was, right? Next step is to try to put it in to place and actually use it. It's a great goal for you to work on.
M: 29, H: 31 D: 9 S: 8 T: 13 Y M: 9 Y ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012 ~~~~ Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths