Wow, have things changed

[Tallula]

So, here's the rest of my day. Didn't call, he called me. He left for his guys night. I went on Facebook and was scrolling threw my news feed when I see that he friended a girl. Remember the number I reversed looked up...yep. So I called him and asked who this woman was. A nurse at his grandmas home. The home he had to go visit last night at 7pm a night. So I then asked what kind of friendship they have. Do they call each other, text? He got pissed and said he would move out when he got back so I wouldn't have to worry about it & hung up. Then he texted me that he blocked me in Facebook. Yea. So I didn't respond. He calls back & I was calm & said that if me asking who a woman he is friending on FB is results in him blocking me on Facebook & moving out, then so be it. I need transparency. He said, if you want to go meet her next time he goes, then great. I repeated again if he calls or texts her & he said she texted him once when grandma was in the hospital...paused, then said "this is the deal. You remember word for word what I say, then if I even slightly contradict myself, you will make a deal out of it & then we'll fight & I'll flip out. I said nothing, then he said have a great weekend

Here I am, faced with the prospect that he is now adding ANOTHER woman into this deal. I can't do this anymore. He later called me repeatedly, I didn't answer & he left a message that he is truely sorry & then friend requested me. At a minimum I plan to tell him my boundaries are that he defriends both woman off FB & any others that I don't personally now. That anytime he is in the house, he has his phone off silent (started keeping it on vibrate a month again) and I can ask to see it anytime I want. Maximum-get out until you can be honest.

I don't know that I'll tell him I looked at his phone & know she texted him "are you with tallula tonight?" I'm absolutely sick to my stomach.

Advice? Suggestions?