SM34, you've been told a few times here to turn the focus onto Y-O-U and yet you just keep posting the same old stuff- "W likes X, Y and Z, should I be doing X, Y and Z?" You need to understand that you're past the point of trying to figure out what your W wants and which buttons to push. She's done with you for now. Nothing you do to earn her back will work, it's all pressure to her at this point. Touching, feeling, back rubs, ILY, words of affirmation, compliments- it's all PRESSURE. It will all push you AWAY from your goal of restoring your M. So you've got to do what every person in your sitch must do- DETACH and GAL. GAL does not mean spend endless hours poring over books and forums trying to figure out what strategy to implement. It means working on you, improving yourself, making yourself into the spouse only a fool would leave. You keep saying what you're going to start doing as far as GAL. Quit talking about it and just do it! If you've done nothing yet, then I suggest you quit posting a few days and use that time to get started! Get out there man!
