Oh good, when is the next meeting of the non-detachers club?? I'm in...
Seriously Spartan, how did she lie? Aren't you just guessing? What if OM called her and she has not been calling or seeing him? You can't know this. I also know it's super hard not to react to past behaviour, but the decision to trust is just that, a decision. And if you are not at the point where you can trust, how about just saying to yourself that you cannot make anyone else's decisions, only your own.
So if W broke her word, this is not your decision and you have to know that there is nothing you can do that will make someone else act as you want.
Free will is a bit of a b*tch sometimes, but wouldn't trade it for anything..
