Honestly, our communication is .. better. I mean I haven't really spoken to her w/o being spoken to at all really and I always make sure I'm calm and I listen, looking her in the eyes when she's talking, I'll pause the game or movie if she's speaking etc.
I am doing very well in our communication. She'll sucker me into an argument, or attempt to, (not really an argument but she'll get hostile) and I'm getting quicker and "shutting it down" and saying "well I'm sorry you feel that way" and not reply anything else.
But, really... last few times we've talked, txted or w/e hasn't really been much. When she calls for D3 to talk to me, and we end up talking after that, it's always calm etc. She's just so... distant and cold. Her conversations aren't even like her. She really is a different person.
M: 36/W: 28 T 11yrs / M 7yrs /1x 3yo D Sept: W Cheated w/ teen, BDrop. W Beast. Hated me. Oct: 18 (M license)W Asked for D Oct: 31 (Anniverary)W Paid Lawyer Nov1st: Both moved.