Spartan, sorry this is happening. Calm down. As you said, telling the OM off won't help. What did he do? Did he actually speak to your W? I know this is not DBing, but I would tell her, "hey, the OM called while S4 was playing with the phone," and see how she reacts. The DB way would be to ignore the call. That's your call. Whatever you do, only do it when you've calmed down.
