"Technically you didn't accuse me, but it came off that way to me."

And that's why you are having a hard time communicating with your W. You start going off the handle BEFORE you actually think about what's being said. Start to really listen and not to get your own personal biases in the way of that. It'll help you alot in your sitch.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER