Sweetbaby, you said, "AS, thanks for giving me your view on M. Sometimes I have a hard time understanding that not everyone thinks the same way I do on certain subjects." Agree. One of the hardest things for me was to accept that my H doesn't see things the same way I see them, and that it's not a good idea to expect him to behave as I would behave, bc we're two different people. This applies to any R, not just M.
How often do you talk to your H?
Also, don't worry about the children issue too much. Women can have babies well into their 40's, and there's always adoption. Focus on solving the current dilemma first.
