Thanks so much, in my heart reconcilliation is what I want more than anything. I know now that I can't let her live a double life anymore though. She's told me about the affair and said it was none of my concern and if it wasn't this guy it would be another because she can't see herself with me anymore. Of course she says this but is still living with me, sleeping in the same bed, wants to spend time with me etc. it's been very confusing/frustrating year.
