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She is emotionally blackmailing YOU! Again you have 50/50 rights to the kids so they would still be in their home with YOU! Also, wouldn't an attorney interpret your leaving as abandoning the family home???

I know a couple where the W wants the D,not the H. He has refused to leave and so has she. They also have 2 children. His attorney advised him NOT TO UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES leave the family HOME!

I'm not an attorney, so I'm just giving second hand information. See what your L says.

So sorry you are having to deal w the stress of your W's decisions. Please don't cave just b/c you think it might work to your R's benefit-it won't. Maybe for a little while it will give your W peace, but ultimately she may continue to walk all over you in other ways and not respect you as much for caving to her demands. I don't know, just food for thought.

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.