I have spoken to a lawyer. At this point I am going to wait to see the terms from her lawyer. If they are acceptable I will sign. Otherwise I will bring them to the lawyer that I have spoken with.

I would perfer to stay in the house for awhile, as it is my childrens home as well. I want to do everything in my power to keep them as comfortable as possible. To me a house is a house. A home is wherever the family is. At some point I would like to downsize, but for now I will stay. Even if financially I would be better off selling. So far the kids are doing really well. Not sure if it is due to the fact that my w and I are getting along better than expected.

I think it also helps that my children typically don't go more than one full day without seeing my w, and usually no more than two days without seeing me.


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on