Portia, When he mentioned counseling through a work program, is he specifially stating a counselor that is on the job? He may need to talk to someone about his situation and try to work things through. Do you recall if he's having any issues at work?
Try not to worry about this...it's out of your control and if he's willing to see someone, then he must have something on his mind that he needs to work through.
Keep the focus on you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
