I didn't say that it wasn't legitimate or pass judgement. I was just stating the facts about how relationships work. If you looked carefully at the situations on here, especially the ones that deal with an A you'll see it. This has nothing to do with "culture".
You said so yourself that you don't want her to see another guy or at least that specific guy. That's contradicting what you say is your lifestyle. You can't control what another person does which is what you're trying to do.
"My wife is already showing signs of coming back to me, "
This is a contradiction. Your W was never really completely yours because she gives herself to someone else same as you. You were feeling JEALOUS which goes against what you say is what you should be okay with.
"by saying "I love you" repeatedly."
Isn't this what she and you are allowed to say to other people as well? That sounds like it cheapens the meaning of love.
"I think she is beginning to see my value and beginning to see the mistake she has made withdrawing from my initially."
Seriously? You're that judgemental? Go back and read my post about how relationships work. As long as you choose that lifestyle, there will always be times that she will pull away or see that another guy has more value than you. That's just the way relationships and human beings work.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
