Engage her in things that the OM can't. Just a little. All of the things you mentioned technically sound like you trying to supplicate what you THINK she wants. It's all mind-reading.
On this topic of engaging her. W and i are EXTREMELY political. We watch all the political shows on TV, and we used to post a lot of election stuff last year. Anyway, what I am getting at is that when she gets home from OM she wants to watch that stuff, I guess because she is watching him play video games at his house.
So do I engage her during that time? I did that the first few weeks but then thought I needed to pull back a little because I couldn't figure out if it was too much.
Also, she still posts political stuff on FB but I have stopped commenting or liking them. although I always usually had something to add or comment on. Should i be doing that at least sometimes?
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
