"When I read relationship books i realize that is what they call "your adventure" and women like to go on "your adventure". When my adventure wasn;t so exciting it went south. "
That's BS "alpha male" talk. Some women are just as equally fine not doing anything and some enjoy doing their own thing that is different than their H, yet they are happily married. You really need to stop thinking in terms of generalities like that.
Engage her in things that the OM can't. Just a little. All of the things you mentioned technically sound like you trying to supplicate what you THINK she wants. It's all mind-reading.
Do something different that you've never done before. But do it for you and not to get a reaction from her.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
