Is this cake eating? 10

[wishing, hoping]

NLW -

I haven't posted on your sitch in a long time. I was just catching up and my jaw dropped when I read some of the things your H said and did. I swear your H and my H had the same script. Mine said the exact same thing as yours. That I was "limiting his access to the kids" and "I won't be in the same position to make you an offer if we have to spend more money going to court" and "I am not threatening you, just making you aware of the reality of the situation."

Don't listen to them. He is scared and he is trying to scare and intimidate you. He is coo-coo for cocoa puffs and he knows he is in for a fight. Don't back down and most certainly do NOT listen to him.

We trying mediation FWIW, but it didn't work out. We are moving on to the GAL. H says I am stalling and procastinating, but that's just because I am not giving him what he wants. If he made me the offer of what I wanted I would sign the documents right now. Of course, he won't do that. He wants to get his divorce and get his way as well (cake-eating in other words). Sorry Charlie, it don't work that way. You don't get to control everything.

Hang on, you're doing great!