OM managed to get my W into a EA over text messages simply by telling her how "gorgeous" she is. On BD I asked her what he has that I don't, and she said he tells me I am gorgeous. I said tell you that you look nice ALL the time, she said yes, but he says I am GORGEOUS!
So, COMPLIMENTS on looks were enough for her to fall for her. He is not attractive at all, she had no idea if he was going to be more ready than me to have sex whenever she needed, he lives in a one bedroom apartment, has two kids from an old relationship etc.. etc. I can go on and on the negatives. BUT IT DOESN'T MATTER NOW! THE IMPORTANT THING IS HOW DO I BE THE BEST THAT I CAN BE WHEN AROUND MY WIFE.
I am so lost with how much attention or affection etc. Is not touch? What about a neck rub? What am I doing? HELP
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
