"MrBond, I need suggestions as to how to be with her. I try to show confidence, strength as well as listening and validating when she complains about something (not relationship stuff. She has not brought that up since two days after BD)."
Be your new and improved self. DON'T get all touchy feely or go overboard on anything. LL are great, BUT they only work when your M is good. If you try applying that now she will bolt. What were the things that she found attractive about you in the first place?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.