Ok, on the apology I think I get it. Right now, if I were to try and apologize and open the door to talking it's still just going to come off of as pursing/needy behavior. No matter if I truly intend to apologize and follow through she's going to see it as a hollow farce to get her to come back. By continuing to detach and pull back I stand a chance (small I know) that she'll get interested again. IF she decides to work on things with me then I can apologize and continue to show her with my actions. Am I on the right track?
AoS...well, I was doing the laundry but she still most of the cooking. Watching the kids was here and there and I think a lot of it was passive-aggressive on my part. When I say AoS I mean the really small things, those small loving acts. But once again, not really a way to do that when she's not even sleeping in the same house as me. Me bringing down the boxes of shoes was a small AoS, so I guess just being helpful at times like that is the most I can do.
I had thought about sending a response text to her not remembering what she wanted this morning of "You wanted me ;)"...
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
