You are afraid that she will bolt. It's understandable. However, you can't allow her to treat you like the bug exterminator either. Pick a time that appears good to have a chat and do it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. At least she'll become aware of how you feel about things. Don't be surprised if she gets angry or acts all defensive...it's the normal behavior for mlcers. Stay cool, calm and collected. Do not raise your voice...keep your voice even and calm.
Do you think I should say $hit or get off the pot - why are you planning a future with me when you want to seperate ??? This is what I was thinking.
If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it. I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!
